What clarity do you need
to get unstuck from people, places, or situation? We’ve all been there:
staying in a relationship too long
getting bogged down in a project that sucks the life out of you
doomscrolling cause you don’t know what else to do
or anything that makes you feel like you’re living in Groundhog Day
My three-card spread may not solve all of your problems, but it should take you one step closer to unstuckness.
Card Spread: The Clarifying Light
Set your intention - this is probably the most important step. If you don’t know what you want . . .
Next, shuffle a tarot or an oracle deck then draw 3 cards in a triangle pattern.
Card 1 (Left Base): What has been hidden that is now becoming visible
Card 2 (Right Base): Illusions being burned away by the light
Card 3 (Top Point): The clear vision emerging for your path ahead.
If your three cards aren’t showing you the path forward, use the journal prompts below. It’s okay to draw more cards to accompany your journal prompts too - I’m all for using whatever tools work.
Journal Prompts
What truth are you ready to fully see and acknowledge?
How has your vision of your path shifted in recent months?
What becomes possible when you see with complete clarity?
My Stuckness
I would tell you that I’ve been stuck on health my entire life, but that’s not true. Somewhere along the line a distant memory filtered into my brain and from there on health became the monster in the room. Using my friend, Thomas Witholt’s Apothecary Spirits Oracle, I drew
Guarana
Marigold
Cerasee
Of the three, Marigold is the one I know, as it’s the flower used in Day of the Dead offerings.
Card 1, Guarana, is a card of energy - and it tells me that what is hidden is the massive toll worry takes on my health and my energy. . . . more than I ever imagined. That’s kinda scary, you know.
Card 2, The illusions being burned away (Marigold) are those that tell me I’m doing my best. Instead, Marigold says I’m certainly not doing my best nor am I showing myself enough respect. Ouch.
Card 3, Cerasee, is the vision of the clear path ahead, and it’s one of bitterness UNLESS I change my ways, both in action and in thought.
Ass-kicking, anyone?
Of course, I drew a fourth card for what new thought could change that bitterness to sweet and it was the Measuring Spoons, a card about finding the ‘formula’ for balance. The formula (I drew a fifth card) was Mortar & Pestle - the card of breaking down one thing to create something new.
For me, what needs breaking down are very old, very deeply buried thoughts and ideas. I feel as if my entire mental construct around health needs to be aired out, tossed out, re-examined.
Look, I know we all have those monster issues in our lives. I don’t know about you, but I’m damned tired of thinking about mine. My three cards didn’t solve the problem but they pointed me in the right direction.
Give this spread a go leave a comment.
Nancy





I asked the question, what kind of writing should I be focusing on? Not substack, but work I want to sell. Because I'm constantly cycling between novels, scripts, and shorter work for magazines or journals. But I'm not making progress because I don't finish anything and I don't feel inspired by anything. So I don't think the first card I pulled was a surprise.
1. Ace of Wands R
2. Queen of Pentacles
3. The Emperor
For me that first card really spoke to the idea that I'm struggling to commit because I'm not connecting to anything I'm trying to do. The question isn't, what type of writing should I do? The question is, what story am I excited to tell and what medium works best for it?
The second card talked about the fact that I need to shift my expectations. I have been very frustrated with myself because I used to be a prolific writer and I haven't been in the last few years. The reality is my situation isn't the same. I don't have the same stable housing and job, I don't have the same health, I don't have the same family life.
But that last card comes in and says, you can write and you can write well and you can write prolifically. But it's going to take a mindset shift. And a level of discipline that I'm not currently displaying.
Thanks for the spread, it was helpful!
Card 1 was the Tower Card, so... 😅